Winning Him Without Words

                                          “This giveaway is CLOSED”  and we have Winners!

These were picked in a very scientific manner…right out of the basket by dd3 and ds16.  Congratulations Muthering Heights and Jaydee!!!  Check your emails….

I have been blessed to be a part of a wonderful group of women and men on a Yahoo group known as 1Peter3Living.  It is a group for Christian spouses living, and striving to do God’s will, in a marriage that is unequally yoked. I get a tremendous amount of encouragement there.  Two of the ladies who run the group have written a book called Winning Him Without Words.  It is a wonderful book that gives you ten Christ-centered keys for thriving in a spiritually mis-matched marriage.  These ladies both know what they’re talking about because they live it in real life.  I’ve been blessed to be able to participate in their blog tour and have not one, but two, of  these wonderful books to give away.  If you are married to an unbeliever or know someone who could benefit from this book please leave a comment to enter.  This giveaway will end Saturday, April  9th at midnight PST. Winner will be announced Sunday.

I would also encourage you to visit their blog page at Spiritually Unequal Marriage.

Below is a personal note from Lynn:

Thank you for having me over to your place today. I have to tell you that when I began blogging five years ago, I had no idea what a crazy and fantastic journey God had in store. It’s been a wild ride filled with rich blessings and you are one of them. Thank you.

Who would have guessed that God would take my little website and turn it into a ministry for the thousands of men and women who are unequally yoked? But indeed, our God has great plans and five years later, my passion to serve this community is stronger than ever.

My co-writer, Dineen Miller and I watched the Lord take this ministry a step further this year with the launch of our book, Winning Him Without Words. This is a book written from our personal experience and from a deep place in our hearts and it presents 10 Christ-centered keys to thriving in a spiritual mismatch. Readers are encouraged to commit to Christian community, to release their spouse to God’s capable hands, to believe their marriage is blessed, to pick and choose their battles, and to continue their pursuit of a growing faith and to love their spouse with fresh enthusiasm.

In the book I share, “It matters not how we came to be in our crazy, mixed-up and unexpected marriage situations. What matters is that God desires that we honor our marriage commitment and fulfill our marriage vows through His power and His strength. There were many years of confusion, sadness and unfulfilled expectations, but I discovered it’s possible to love, live and thrive in an unequally yoked marriage.”

Both Dineen and I are Christian women who continue to live and thrive in our spiritually unequally yoked marriages and we believe that God wants every marriage to exude peace and love.

Chapters include:

• Know You’re Not Alone: (Lynn) Recognizing that we aren’t the only person living in an unequally yoked marriage is a key aspect to restoring hope. Having Christ in our lives enables us to view our husbands as the wonderful man God created, regardless of your different beliefs.

• Don’t Save Your Husband – Save Yourself: (Lynn) The best thing I ever did was to get out of the way so that Jesus could be Jesus. I relinquished control and turned my man completely over to Christ and an unexpected, peaceful freedom emerged in our marriage.

• Trade Perfection for Authenticity: (Dineen) I came to understand that many of my disappointments had come from expectations I’d placed upon him to fulfill needs he wasn’t even aware of. In the end, all I really accomplished was a heart full of resentment.

• Keep Your Armor On-You’re at War! (Dineen) Instead of putting on the label of martyr in a spiritually mismatched marriage, we need to put on the label of missionaries. We need to think of ourselves as soldiers on the front lines of our marriages. Other chapters include parenting children in an unequally yoked marriage, praying into the life of your spouse and scriptures to encourage and strengthen you.

Winning Him Without Words empowers readers to create that environment in their homes and thrive as God works.

About Winning Him Without Words:

Winning Him Without Words: 10 Keys to Thriving in Your Spiritually Mismatched Marriage by Lynn Donovan and Dineen Miller. Published by Regal Books. February 2011. Trade Paper, 224 pages. $14.99.

You can find more information at our website and enter the drawing for the Marriage Trio.

Thank you for allowing me to share the hope I have for my marriage through the transforming power of Jesus Christ. Hugging you, Lynn Donovan


12 responses to “Winning Him Without Words

  1. Stacy, thank you so much for sharing our message! You are a sweet blessing to us too, girl! Hugs!

  2. I am newly joining today and I already am learning so much and feel like this book could be a great tool in helping me through! Thank you for this wonderful website and touching the lives of so many!

  3. My Friend,

    Thank you so much for helping us get the message into hands of women who need encouragement and to know with Jesus any marriage can thrive. I have known you a long time and treasure our friendship. Sending you a GIANT HUG. Love, Lynn

  4. Oh my gosh. I didn’t even know this existed. I would like to enter, please!

    Best of luck, honey. Our God is good and sovereign.

  5. I am also apart of of 1peter3living… I have yet to really read into it… I have been trying to find a balance of home life,work,and online life… So far online is having to take a back seat.. I have been wanting to read this book since it came out..

  6. That sounds like a great book!

  7. I saw this giveaway listed on a linky… had no idea what the title meant, but I’m SO glad to be here. I’d love to read this book.
    Thanks for the opportunity. I’m off to check out the link you mentioned.
    janmessali (at)

  8. it’s really very comforting to know that other women are living life abundantly even as they walk this path! thank you for helping to get the message out!

  9. Thanks so much for your blog and your message! Love it!

  10. nikia Mccubbin

    Sounds like a good book Thanks for sharing

  11. I have a friend who could benefit greatly from this book. She is struggling so much to know how to handle the situation. I actually think prayer led me to your page!

  12. Sounds like a great read. Thank you for the opportunity.

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